I LOVE your shirt. ♥
Have you tried any of the DevaCurl products? I have been struggling for years to manage my frizzy, curly hair and this is a dream come true! I use the gel and i literally just put it on my hair when it's soaking wet (maybe over a little leave in conditioner depending on the day)and just leave it be! no blow dryer, no nothing. Occasionally it will leave my curls a tiny bit crunchy feeling after my hair dries but all you have to do is scrunch the curls with your hands once or twice and you're left with perfect, natural hair!